I recently started listening to the SimpleLeadership Podcast. The first episode I listened to was Engineering Leadership Principals with Oren Ellenbogen. I have subscribed to Oren's Software Lead Weekly newsletter for years and have found some great articles that have helped with my leadership development.
During the podcast, Oren mentioned a video by Dick Costolo that he felt every leader should watch.
The gist of the video was:
As a leader, you must care deeply about your team WITHOUT worrying about what they think of you.
Find YOUR individual superpower and leverage that to be successful in your own way.
A great video and two great takeaways.